They say that life is hard, I agree and I disagree with them. Life is as hard as any individual would like it to be. People everyday complain of dead end jobs but if you have no commitments why stay.
There are plenty of paths that come before us and if we chose them, we better know the consequences. The people you surround yourself are your own personal choice, you are who you surround yourself with. Starting a family is a personal choice and contrary to popular belief, is not the happily ever after scene that its painted to be. All these and more are choices we make, some made out of anger while others have selfish connotations. Do not blame others for the choices that you have made because making others unhappy shall do nothing but create enemies amongst us.
When you make the choices hat you believe you can live with, would others impact the way you view your choices.
What other people think of you is immaterial unless you put too much thought in it. The thoughts that others propagate of you are their own and portray their own inabilities ,so as much as you may want to fit in, it is not worth losing yourself to be with others.
Be the person who brings joy to others by loving them further and in turn they shall reciprocate. Making another person unhappy to be themselves is just killing them bit by bit.....
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